But bringing a child into a situation with that much drama with a father that you already know lacks morals and values is reprehensible.
However, there are a few things childless men should keep in mind when deciding whether they are ready to date a woman with a child, or children. Figure out if you like or want kids BEFORE dating a woman with children.
When you are single and looking to mingle, you generally will not hurt anyone if you start dating “just to see where things go.” Plenty of men do this all the time.
Privacy in the home becomes difficult because angry mothers tend to interrogate their children when they return home from Dad's house.
Some love to file court hearings at the drop of a hat and there is the potential for you, if you are living or ultimately married to him, to be pulled into these post-marital dramas. Many of you may have found out the hard way that your new love had lousy boundaries with his ex.
We are all free to make up whatever dating preferences we want.