You can blame it on biology and a man’s innate need to spread his seed, or on today’s culture which deems men who sleep with lots of women studs (and women who sleep with lots of men sluts), but it’s just the way it is.
As such, women have control when it comes to sex and can decide whether to give in or not, while men have the control when it comes to commitment.
Most men want sex and most women want a commitment.
That’s not to say men don’t want commitment, they do, it’s just not the driving force behind their behavior, getting a lot of sex is.
– and misaimed anger by people who seem to believe that Mc Kinlay was doing something fiendish and underhanded, a digital pick-up artist who dehumanized women by trying to reduce seduction into numbers and becoming an online Svengali. Mc Kinlay did what many nerds have done before: he attempted to solve a problem by taking his strengths – research, coding and statistical sampling – and applying them to the task at hand.