In all my years of dating men, if there’s one thing that’s stuck out like a sore thumb in a man, it’s his insecurity.At least in all the men I’ve dated, more than half of them were insecure. What’s more surprising is that I’m not the only one who’s had to deal with insecure men.A big part of learning how to stop being needy is correcting this state.
But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.
Unfortunately, you’ll never see the signs or the real face under the mask of niceness until you’re ready to end the relationship or have already broken up with him.
Men are usually the ones who complain about their woman getting clingy, but what happens when the tables get reversed? Needy and clingy guys don’t come every day, but when they do come along, they usually find a girl who loves her own independence.
Here’s a confession about my own stint as a needy and clingy guy, when that was the last thing I actually wanted to be. I believe in space in love, and I truly understand why a couple needs to stay away from each other now and then.
Acknowledge them to yourself and become aware of their value in this world, for you or for others around you.