First I hope you are giving him kudos for valeting the car.
In a playful kind of way, think of this as a modern day episode of Downton Abbey.
If there is only one valet working you will see them jump out of the car and run around to grab your door (however your date certainly can open your door but shouldn’t be judged harshly if he doesn’t).
Now some men will open the door HOWEVER this is one of the few times that I personally believe men are given a great big PASS in not open up your door.
A guy should look to go the extra mile – to open the car door, to cover the bill…